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Nice Guy to Confident and Powerful
"My mother was a strong and independent woman. Very much so. She was very liberal, and growing up, my household followed that lead. I was ..."
Developing Boundaries and Confidence
"Growing up in an African American community of the inner city, I could not meet standards held up to young black men. I wasn't tall and l..."
by Andrew King
OM has Helped with My Shyness
"My family are Chinese, our religion is Buddhism, but it's less about religion and more about culture. We rarely share feelings, and sex i..."
by Andy Chan
Workaholic Shifted to Purpose
"By the time I came to OM, I was really alone. I was a workaholic, and I hardly ever socialized. The few friends I had had all slowly dwi..."
by Tim Everett
Letting Go of People Pleasing
"I was so in my head before Orgasmic Meditation. I just didn’t know how to express myself. It seemed like a lot of people liked me, but I ..."
by Lenny Hughes
No Longer Need to Fix People
"I spent my childhood in a series of all-boys boarding schools in England. This was the way it had always been for men in my family; it wa..."
I Can Face a Woman’s Anger
"My wife and I had a typical story. When we first got together, we couldn’t keep our hands off each other. The sex was fantastic. I’d neve..."
by Ben Phillips
Playing An Instrument With Great Precision & Sensitivity
"I love to dance. For years, dancing was the only way I could express myself and my passion freely. Yet at one time, even my dancing was s..."
The Power to Be Present
"Five years ago, I was at a contact improv class, which is a type of improvisational dance, when I saw a guy with the energy of an exubera..."
OM has Expanded my Ability to be Attentive
"The formulas we’re supposed to live our lives by are all around us. They’re in the movies we see on first dates. They’re demonstrated in ..."
From Nice Guy to Honest Man
"The only place I could be honest about my desires was in consuming porn. I’d go home and get drunk and open up my computer and go to town..."
Leaving Shame Behind
"I was a hungry person. Despite a strong spiritual practice, a satisfying creative outlet, and two children I was deeply devoted to, the o..."
by Armin Ahmadi
Finding My Strength in Connection
"I’d always had women friends, and always been bewildered by women at the same time. When I was in college, I had tons of female friends,..."
Dropping My Fears and Realizing My Potential
"I came to OM when I was stuck in an emotional rut. I had done talk therapy, journaling, retreats, and lots of introspection. I knew why ..."
by Chad Boyd
Feeling Comfortable With Women
"When relating to women, I learned to keep myself cold and walled off, unless the relationship was on my terms. I put a lot of mental effo..."
Saying Yes to What Brings Me Joy
"You know the old saying, “The shoemaker’s children go barefoot?” It’s the idea that people who are experts at something often fail to pra..."
Finding the Confidence
"I had always tried to project the image of a man who was intelligent and cool and had it all together. I wanted people to look at the fac..."
"I was in an elevator in downtown San Francisco with my fiancée and her friends when I realized my life needed to change. I made a joke, ..."
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